Greatest lesson in life

"The greatest lesson in life is to teach or be tought the ability to reason."-Blythe Linger-

Monday 29 October 2012

Month #1 in Durban


The sound of crickets rubbing their legs together in unison echos in my ears as i sit on a wooden deck, wiping tiny drops off my notebooks screen. So today is one month since I touched down in Durban. Away from home in a place I don’t know. It has being a crazy month… new experiences; new people; different surroundings and mixed emotions. On one hand I’m learning new things and growing myself in areas that I would have never ventured into. I’m staying in a little town North of Durban and it is extremely beautiful! The weather has being tropical and it really is my ideal setting. There has being times where I’ve being ready to book a ticket home and moments of “damn I’m never going home” .I can say I’ve survived a month and I’m sticking it out ;) I do feel lonely though; don’t know anyone really well and yeah away from home so -you can imagine-… I work with kids weekly and it really is inspiring! It’s amazing watching the smiles on these kids’ faces and how they find joy in the smallest of things. My fellow colleges are all too funny… everyone in their own way.. It’s crazy! Not to mention the scandal and sex (yes I said it S.E.X)that goes on here…

Well when I feel the need or rather the urge to blog I will J see you guys around.

Monday 23 July 2012

R500,00 To Take Off!


 

Personal History:
As you know my name is Blythe Stuart Linger I live in Cape Town and I am 20 years of age. To give you a brief history of myself, I was raised by my mom as both my dad and step dad passed away at an early age in my life, this leaving my mom to finance all my education and living expenses. I have worked from a young age for my own money to help ease the financial strain on my mother. I am one of the first in my family to receive a matric (National Senior Certificate) and I would like to be the first to put an end to this atmosphere of struggle that seems to hang around us!

Reason for wanting to do piloting:
I have many things I enjoy doing in life: writing; theater; music; Jazz but my underlining dream has always been Piloting! I started my PPL(Private Pilot License) at age 14 where my mom thought she would be able to pay for it par time, but I soon had to stop as it became increasingly expensive. It killed me to have to give up on my dream. Then a few other factors came in that added on as well. Then just the other day it popped into my head again. My dream is to be a commercial pilot and once working I would like to sponsor another person -that is in the same situation as I am at the moment- to follow their dream. I believe that it is an incredibly important ripple effect to cause, so that we will find ourselves empowering each other from generation to generation! I also believe we will be most fruitful and successful in our area of passions!

How I came up with the idea of raising money:
After going from bank to bank it became clear that I would never be able to qualify for a loan of R500 000 let alone paying the interest back per month. My mom also owns no property… This left me thinking, and after doing some research on statistics in Cape Town alone, I came to realize that there are over 3.4 mill people living in cape town and if I were to just collect 1 Rand from 500 000 of those people I would be able to finance my dream. A plastic bag at a super market cost almost 1 Rand now a days… and people by bags without thinking, why can’t I take those 1 Rands and put them to good use?… and use it to empower not only myself but my family and even make a positive effect on my country! The idea seemed/ seems crazy but the more you think about it the more possible it becomes.

Cutoff date of fund raising, and what if I don’t reach my goal?
My cutoff date would be June 2013 as that’s when I would need to start training. If I don’t reach my goal of either R100 000(PPL course) or R500 00(PPL+COM course) I will give all proceeds to charity. I have decided to do this as the money is not my own in the first place. I want it for one thing and one thing only and that Is to pursue my dream… If I fail to do that I believe it’s only right that the money goes to others who need it more and who could possibly even go on to follow their dreams!
Course info:
The course is an intensive course done over 178+- days at 43 air school in Port Alfred South Africa and costs R500 000. There is also a course for R100 000 for a PPL (Private Pilot License) done over 54days +-. 43 air schools is one of the best flight schools around feeding excellent quality pilots into both local and international airlines.

Places one can donate/contribute:
·         Vetshop@centry and Absolute pets in Canal Walk Cape Town.
·         Edgemead Educare in Edgemead Cape Town
·         Pay pal

Wednesday 6 June 2012

Hail to the thief #2


So I realize that I’m a bit delayed with my response to this “Spear” painting. I’ve being monitoring the media and all, listening to people’s opinions on whether Brett Murry (the artist) and the Goodman gallery are in the wrong or right, or is the ANC party and leader taking this a bit too far?  Is the President infringing on the rights of the people? And is Mr. Murry infringing on Mr. Zuma’s rights? One throws the race card in… the other throws the religious card and then some others play the “disrespect to cultures” card.

With the title “president” comes great pressures and responsibilities. As a leader and especially one of a country, it is obvious that you would have to watch your every word, you’re every move and every reaction, as the country will be holding you responsible! As we all know Mr. Zuma has said some… well to be quiet frank, he has said some really dumbass things! We can go back to the “shower the aids off” story or comments he has made about the homosexual community and culture, not to mention underlining racial nudges he has made from time to time. So yes Mr., Zuma be prepared to take it like a man when it bites you in the arse –if you can dish it out make sure you can get it back- then we have the corruption within the government and some of the heads of various departments. And of course who must answer? The leader, the president. It’s just the way it is. Now I’m not saying the ANC is the only party that have corruption or who make uneducated statements, but they are the leading party and unfortunately they are in the spotlight and are under scrutiny from the public.
So when a respected artist decides that he would like to express how he feels about the current situations in the country I think he has just as much right as Mr. Zuma had when he slandered the homosexual community as well as embarrassing a nation by saying aids can be washed off in the shower, and chanting “kill the Boer” (lead by example?) and that’s just a few… so yes Brett Murry had every right to express his feelings the way he did.
Was this painting of Jacob Zuma’s genital offensive to him and his family as well as his culture? Well yes it was! Of course it was! Who wouldn’t be offended? He was probably just as offended as the homosexual community was and as offended as the Afrikaans community felt, as well as everyone else he has offended in his “up in the air statements”. In SA we have many different race’s, cultures and creeds and it is impossible to –at one time- not offend everyone, someone will always be offend in some way.
In the end we can learn a lot about one in their response to particular situations and how they react. Do they blow up and become defensive? Do they “turn their check”? Or do they use their power to make something seem bigger than what it is? It is very clear that  the ANC and their leaders have used their power to bring a halt to society… and to fight against the very rights that South Africans have –Freedom of Expression-  those children marching and protesting… why where they not in class ? Why where all the people protesting not at work or studies trying to better themselves? And in that, uplifting our county. It’s simple, it’s because the “leaders” we as South Africans look up to for guidance and leadership are encouraging childish public acts of display and once again making uneducated decisions.
I’ll leave this subject with these words: Jacob Zuma’s reaction aside from his previous ones tells us a lot about his leading styles… does he lead by example? And does he just use his power to shift focus?
How many rapes; murders; starving children; houseless families; communities without schooling; communities who have no access to running water or electricity have we missed? What about the gentleman or lady lying in pain in hospital waiting for an operation that could save their life, but they cannot afford it? Surely these all have more importance than a painting of a leader’s penis?
Where is our concentration being shifted? And why are we allowing this?
Come on leader! Come on “father of our nation”! Encourage us to uplift our nation as one! Stop encouraging this segregation and rebellion!

What about the freedom that was once promised?


Picture Source: http://www.google.co.za/imgres?imgurl=http://files.abovetopsecret.com/files/img/bh4fac85f6.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.abovetopsecret.com/forum/thread839319/pg1&usg=__5xuAwpHbud0g-Io91-d4NtGlaFk=&h=525&w=350&sz=54&hl=en&start=3&zoom=1&tbnid=AGiza4TJGFwulM:&tbnh=132&tbnw=88&ei=yoXOT473C4OXhQeE1MiiDA&itbs=1
-Blythe Linger-

Tuesday 5 June 2012

Rights? or Yeah Right!

Hail to the thief

sources:
 Bill of rights from: http://www.info.gov.za/documents/constitution/1996/96cons2.htm#16
Pictures from:  http://www.zalebs.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/The-Spear-Defaced-Gallo.jpg
                      : http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/5/59/The_Spear_-_a_portrait_of_Jacob_Zuma,_by_Brett_Murray.jpg/250px-The_Spear_-_a_portrait_of_Jacob_Zuma,_by_Brett_Murray.jpg

Tuesday 29 May 2012

Tough love vs "being babied"

This subject hits home closely.. I have grown up with the "tough love" system and I think it wasn't by choice but rather my families financial situations.. And a bit of the "ripple effect in generations" despite whether your male or female I think a bit of both "tough love and being babied" should be present...my parents grew up in a financial struggle and also I'd like to say -emotional struggle-, then passing it down to the next generation.. My brother and sister where born and then me, and we too have/are experiencing the financial situations.. To such an extent that its deadened emotions. I thought growing up with tough love(no emotions; get over it; no communication) would benefit me in life, as we hear that this life is harsh on us and we will have to be able to face it! And I can say yes this "cold hearted approach" has benefited me in life... :I don't take shit from anyone; I don't stand down to anything/anyone(which is sometimes not so good); if I want something I will work for it; I don't get disappointed in people or life as I have no expectations. But I now find myself at -the age of 20- the age that I should be finding my own feet. And "entering the world" (for the second time. I should call this the rebirth) that instead of being toughened up by now ready to face anything that comes my way...I find myself falling apart looking for guidance looking to someone to run to .. All the things I should have done when I was younger -that's being babied- but only now are these key things catching up to me.. And at a stage where I should be ready to start my own life I feel rather lost and that strong "back bone" I once thought I had now shows clear that it was merely just a exterior, that is now coming crashing down. I now long to be babied and I now wish that I wasn't brought up with the method of "tough love". I'm guessing a bit of both would be good! One thing I have learnt at this young age(yes you don't have to be old to teach life lessons) is a emotional connection between siblings and parental figures is a key thing in growing up and it will equip you later in life... "Tough love" is not love! #JustMyThoughtsAndExperiences.